*With friends like those who needs enemies?* comes to mind.
ETA: I have finally learned to use the word *No* after 66 years of being a people pleaser and am finding the word easier to use, the more I use it. I spent so many hours a day doing things for total strangers online and now am shifting the focus back to myself and my own needs. Ironically, I am finding some very generous people who have been so darn good to me even though I have done little for them. Closing the doors on one-sided friendships enabled me to open the windows and have fresh air with new truly generous people.
After sharing videos, workout tips, and tech tips for over 15 years, I have decided to spend the rest of my online time in retirement on the WellVideo.net site where I have found many friends who appreciate my efforts and love to share. I may blog about a special offer now and then but otherwise, I am done with toxic people and one-sided relationships.